The
ability to forgive others can serve as a healthy catharsis for the soul.
Many an individual's physical well-being has been greatly impaired due
to the lack of this gracious virtue; for hate and an unforgiving spirit
can lead to numerous physical maladies.
There
seems to be more of a concern manifested these days about health in
general, but often one overlooks the importance of possessing the proper
attitude towards life which also plays a major role in one's physical
condition. Poor mental health can lead to a wide variety of physical
ailments that have been psychosomatically induced. Perhaps ulcers would
be a classic example of this. The one who feels all ``tied up in knots''
over some grudge because of an injustice heartlessly inflicted is aware
of the mind's influence over the body.
How
much better it is for one to be set free from all entanglements of a
bitter or begrudging spirit. Jesus emphasized the need to forgive others
in Matthew 6:15
and shows it to be a prerequisite towards our own salvation. Here
He states: ``But if you do not forgive men, then your Father will not
forgive your transgressions.'' We often speak about the necessary steps
that lead to redemption, but how often do we include the need to forgive
others as being one of the requirements? It was certainly a condition
stipulated by God Himself.
How can
we who are Christians not forgive others, especially in view of all
which God has forgiven us? This, indeed, should be the basis for our own
merciful disposition towards those who have treated us wrongfully. Paul
conveyed this very thought in
Ephesians 4:32
by stating, ``And be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each
other, just as God in Christ has also forgiven you.''
The
story has been told about a man whose health was good. He was sturdy and
strong; his heart functioned well, and his blood pressure was at a good
level. Then his father died, and he got into a long legal dispute with
his sister about their father's will. The case went to court, and the
sister won. From that time forward, the man became obsessed with the
lawsuit and his sister. His animosity towards her continued to grow each
day. Soon he began having trouble with his heart and his blood pressure.
Next his kidneys started bothering him; and, within just a few short
months, he died due to a multiplicity of complications. The doctor, in
commenting on his case, said, ``It seems obvious that he died from
bodily injuries wrought by powerful emotion.'' It appears that this man
killed himself with ill-will --literally committed suicide.
God's
word can teach us each to forgive. It will also show us many reasons why
we should. Let us turn to His word today and allow the truth to set us
free.
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